Ksenia Alferova

Women are not warriors. We must store energy, nourish men. The strength of a woman is in intuition, some irrationality, weakness, softness, warmth.

Success is now a very popular word. What does it mean, you are famous, many people know you? Or do you have a lot of money? At some age you understand that you don’t need it. For example, I’ve never needed a lot of money. Working in a successful English law company, I realized that the main goal is to earn as much money as possible for the company. So I ran away, because there wasn’t any creativity. Money for the sake of money is a very incomprehensible thing for my generation, maybe it is different for the younger one. When you relate to your work with love, then there is something to do it for.For me, for example, success is out fund that my husband and I opened 7 years ago to support people with special needs “I am!”. And I understood it when after a year of our foundation’s existence, people have already talked about it. This is in my opinion a real success. I believe that a person has some kind of mission on the Earth, he comes to this world for some reason. This does not mean that you should make everyone happy, but you still do something good for someone. I’m still an actress, this profession implies that you should always share something good that you have inside. Someone shares time, money, soulfulness, warmth. When a person shares, helps, then he is successful in this life.

Now is a very difficult time for a woman, the world is very masculine. Although probably it has always been. The outside world implies that if you are making a career, you must use your elbows, be strong, but this destroys the “female” self. I went through this – it was enough for me to work for two years in a law company to understand that this is not my cup of tea – you spend your energy, you get only growing zeros on cards, and there is nothing else, you are not filled with anything. It seems to me that a woman is not allowed to do this. We are not warriors. We must store energy, nourish men. The strength of a woman is in intuition, some irrationality, weakness, softness, warmth. Women and men are completely different creatures, so they achieve success in different ways. My husband often told me at the beginning, “why do you need to climb into male territory, why do you need to fight”. A woman should win with her softness.Nowadays it is easier for a man to achieve success, because this is their territory, where they are successful, and we try to climb onto it. We do not understand that we have our own field. It seems to me that feminism is such a stupid thing. The main one is a man who leads into battle, and next to a woman who can direct, fill with energy, motivate, because we see, we feel. #NUMERORUSSIA #NUMERORUASSIGIRL #KSENIAALFEROVA